I used to look at lots of french movies.
It helps me improve my french …. but also find out interesting things about they culture related to love stories.
Last movie i saw … was about the influence of alcohol in love stories … and the way all can be ruined because of the moments when we start to act unconsciously on the stage of life.
Movie starts with a scene … showing us a guy dancing on a table, in a nice restaurant … making striptease for all the ladies which were at that event.
He was extremely … drunk.
Wife was trying to stop him …. but all the people around were applauding … laughing and encouraging him to continue the pathetic show.
The bride came and putted money on the table for him … saying load … «You are the best stripper in the world … my friend.»
The show continued … until one point … when seeing he’s already very tired … wife convinced him to get dressed and go home.
Next day … at the breakfast he was so, so ashamed … and tried to honestly apologised … «Listen … i am sorry! I just drunk too much … and lost the control on myself!»
Wife looked into his eyes and replied … «It’s not the first time … and most probably… not the last».
Then she leaved the apartment … going to work.
One year later … the same couple goes to a party … and this time she starts to drink.
…. cocktail after cocktail.
One friend of him … comes and asks him to show his new convertible car and have a ride.
He says to his wife … and then they leave.
Meanwhile … a guy … who was single in there … comes to the wife, seduces her and takes her into one of the bedrooms from upstairs.
The husband comes … looks after her … and finds them in that room … 1 second before as them to start making love.
Takes her from there … they jump into the car … and go back to Paris.
Next day … at the breakfast she was so, so ashamed … and tried to honestly apologise … «Listen … i am sorry! I just drunk too much … and lost the control on myself!»
Husband looked into her eyes and replies… «It’s not the first time … and most probably… not the last».
Then he leaves the apartment … going to work.
Movie itself looked little bit … having trends … of nonsense … but it was the real proof of what happens when we lose the control on ourselves … allowing alcohol to dominate us.
We become … and act unconsciously … doing stupid things … and … ruining all …
Maybe the whole message of the movie was … «Please never allow something to dominate you in such a way … that will make you lose the connection with the conscience!».
But i also dare to ask myself … why people act the way they act … while being under the influence of the unconscious?!
What reveals that?!
Maybe … the husband dreamed to be a stripper … adored of every women seeing him dancing.
And also … his wife unconsciously dreamed of making love with another man … which will really know to make her feel alive in bed.
But … what i find funny … is that I strongly believe that into the french culture … the influence of the unconscious side into our lives is somehow tolerated … no matter of its representation.
Even if in fact …. those moments might ruin lots of things from our current reality.
And … more i try to understand the ability of the french people of being open minded in front of the unconscious side of the human being … more I understand … we should all try to … at least … re analyse the subject.
See it …. as a real case scenario … that should not be denied.
Accepted …
And … maybe we should ask ourselves if it’s actually a signal which could make us deeply understand things … which normally we can’t understand.
Into the end … i agree that always acting consciously is not … optional …. but i am also aware that i we should ask ourselves what is the message beyond the unconscious behaviour on the stage of life … and dare to accept all … as it is.
Be … more open minded … in front of real case scenarios.
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